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When someone loves you, they love all of you. They see where you are weak, and they understand. They don’t judge it. They may not like it, but they are patient with you. They trust you. They trust in the better side of you and believe in who you are. When they are upset with you, they talk to you about it in a calm way. Not shaming. They care more about the relationship than they do about being right. When you love someone it’s not so difficult to accept their flaws. It just comes naturally. You make a choice. You don’t always feel love. Sometimes you have to wake up to that person who’s disappointed you. In that moment, do you think you’re going to feel so loving? You’re not. But it’s a choice. You choose to be kind. You choose to be sweet to them. You may kiss them on the forehead and tell them good morning. Have breakfast with me. You put yourself aside. You give despite your hurt feelings. It touches them, and then they will most likely feel like shit for being a brat to you and apologize and you both can go about your day loving each other. Selflessness is a precursor to love. And for you... love is a feeling or it’s a choice?

Post udostępniony przez Veronica Bielik (@veronicabielik) Wrz 23, 2018 o 5:33 PDT